Your first private show: what to expect, step by step

A private show is a one-on-one session with a performer, and for many people it’s the main reason to join a cam site. It’s normal to feel a bit nervous the first time. Here is exactly what happens.

Before you start

• Chat in free chat first. Get a sense of the model’s personality and check you get on.
• Read their profile. Most list what they enjoy and their limits.
• Check the price per minute and decide how many minutes you want.
• Top up only what you need. Then you can’t go over budget.

Starting the show

Click the private-show button in the model’s room. You’ll see the price, confirm, and the show begins. Everyone else is removed from the room, and it’s just the two of you.

During the show

Say hi, and tell the model what you’d like. Be clear but polite, and respect anything they say no to. Your camera stays off unless you choose to turn on two-way video.

Ending it

You can end a private show at any time, and you only pay for the minutes you use. If you run out of credits, the show simply ends.

Afterwards

If you enjoyed it, a short thank-you message or a tip is appreciated. Many models remember regulars who are kind and respectful.

A good first show in four words

Budget, polite, clear, respectful. Read our etiquette guide for more, or how to choose a cam site to pick where to start.